Helping the habitually defeated and discouraged is a ministry every church should assume. Take such needy ones seriously but do not be darkened yourself with their discouragement. Cleanse yourself.
“Brothers and sisters, if someone is caught in a sin, you who live by the Spirit should restore that person gently. But watch yourselves, or you also may be tempted.” Galatians 6:1
Steps:
- Counsel toward a point of showdown – not toward establishing dependence as a way of life.
- Teach them how to resist, stand.
- Set up a prayer cell (3-5 persons) around each.
- Meet for prayer, not for therapy or rehashing.
- Keep God-centered, not given to introspection.
- Keep united in prayer, claiming God’s help.